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Post #22
When you're trying to motivate people, storytelling is a powerful way to make a connection.
Storytelling in business has become a critical management skill over the last few decades. What was once relegated to Brand marketing is now at the forefront of C-Suite conversations:
CEOs work with their CFO and Investor Relations to craft the quarterly filing story
COOs work with their Product Management team on their products’ user stories.
CMOs work with their Marketing team to tell their story to the firm’s target market.
A good business story is the same as a good regular story, be it Shakespeare or Scorcese. It starts with exposition, goes into a complication and a climax, then features a reversal and a release.
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A recent story from my life was when I learned to never assume another’s intentions.
[EXPOSITION] It was a Friday, and I was working through the afternoon and expecting a call with someone I networked with a few weeks ago. This person was older and more successful than me, and I was looking forward to the call to get advise and mentorship.
[COMPLICATION] The call came through and within two minutes the person said, “hey, I’ll call you back.” I waited 30 minutes and the call back never happened. I was annoyed.
[CLIMAX] I get a text on Monday from the person saying their dog had ran away, and that they spent some time retrieving him and then making sure the dog was okay.
[REVERSAL] I could empathize with the stress of having a dog run away. Your whole world shuts down.
[RELEASE] I learned that you can never assume another’s intentions, people’s lives do not stop for my own. I guess I did get some advise after all.
You too can leverage the rhetorical powers of storytelling in your career:
In an interview, the STAR method is a common storytelling framework. Push yourself to tell the story of your entire career, and how the lessons you’ve learned make you a great fit for the role at hand.
When presenting at work or in school, tie back the key learnings to an overarching story about the topic. Your audience will be more engaged and will be persuaded easier.
Write down all negotiations you go through in life. Negotiations tend to fall cleanly into a storytelling framework.
When selling a product or service, come prepared with a case study if possible. A case study is simply a story of how a product/service added value to a similar client with a similar problem.
Humans have used stories for thousands of years. Stories have a unique power to capture our imaginations and move us into action. Master storytelling, and you’ll be better off in every aspect of life.
PK